Friday, August 9, 2013

Bus Conversations: A Whore is a Whore, no Matter if She Repented

Tampa, (Fl) --- With everyday people and just hanging out with the commonality you can hear the popular wisdom.
Today early in the morning as I was waiting the bus to go to work, I had the chance to hear a very disturbing conversation which makes me wonder if the younger generation as well my own are spiraling down into a twirl of debauchery.

There are no reasons to profile the individuals I heard the conversation in the short, 15 minute drive from my commute; but the individuals seemed to prioritize short-term relations without any consequences in the near future.
Dissecting the individuals, they seemed to be focused on finding sensuous pleasures much as going for a Big Mac or fried chicken, even so just getting wasted.

The conversation was already on when I came to the bus, but it freaked me out completely to hear how casual a group of people were talking about their "babymommas", "sugardaddies", kids and casual relations.
If the world is going with some standards within emotional values then we can expect a collapse; I am not voguing for the crap called "traditional family values" because that is just an overrated crap to cover any facade within a collapsed marriage; I am voguing for understanding but yet as time goes by it seems people go into sensual pleasures rather than anything else.

The conversation that the young woman had with a friend who was also in the route, took a very sensitive topic "family". The girl had 24 years old, she already had two kids and several encounter with the police due some abusive relationships which included their "babydaddies". Her kids father's weren't the most sympathetic individuals, at least one of them.
Beside that, both fathers were having already relationships with other women, the girl herself was also in a relation with another man who seemed not be genuine even if she added flowers to the scenario.
Her family life was probably even more wicked, as her own mother was in a relation with a man in his 30's while her she was around 40 from what I could heard in the conversation.

Her mother herself was arrested for battery, but she said it so casually and so natural that it made me wonder if nature vs. nurture played a role on how she saw the world.? Maybe she doesn't better because her "mother-in-law" from her current relationship, as she described was a good woman, that got arrested several times for drug paraphernalia, got caught using and trafficking with drugs but yet she would trust her kids to her because even if she is doped she would take good care of them.

Then it brings to my other point, kids tend to mimic at a young age the patterns they see on the adults that surround them; no matter the gender, the orientation and identity, a good adult can be a positive influence to someone who is younger and how those kids are going to react when they are adults.? Nobody knows because of all the negative influence they are receiving.

Who shall we blame.? The government.? the school system,? society itself.? No, ourselves; ourselves, for being so selfish and turned into individuals who want everything now without working it out.
Then it comes the title of this entry, "A Whore is a Whore, No Matter if She Repented" that's what the girl who was talking said out loud by complaining about the woman who were dating her "babydaddies".
She maybe still lingers something for them because otherwise she wouldn't feel jealous or make any comments.
While a whore is a whore, no matter if she dress as a nun; the fathers are also to blame with, because a relationship is by two individuals who should be committed but yet some people seem to forget that. 

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